Why Representation Matters

Photo from Amman Kayla

2011, English Class, I was 13. Our English teacher asked us, “if we were making a movie on your life, who would play you?” My mind went blank. I began scanning the limited movie knowledge I knew, trying to find the perfect actress. The white girls had various answers, with long explanations, actually identifying similarities. Even the black girls, there was a diversity in their answers as they explained which black actress (or singer, someone did say Beyonce) would play them. However, I was stuck, because I knew no brown Indian actresses.

My English teacher eventually came over to our table to ask how we were doing. I expressed to him that I was stuck for people, as were the other brown girls on my table – one, who was Indian Sikh, another who was Muslim. We expressed that we didn’t know any brown actresses, to which my teacher replied, “they don’t need to be brown, they just need to play you.” The other girls accepted it, at least they did on the outside, but that sentence really hit me hard. To me, it wasn’t right, it was lying and it wouldn’t be me. “I guess there’s that girl from Bend It Like Beckham,” I perched up, finally identifying the first Indian actress I could think of. My English teacher was impressed, my brown friends also seemed ecstatic, “oh gosh, that means we can’t be her” and instead, when it came to presentation time, they presented a white girl each to play themselves.

When it was my time to present, I told my class the name of my actress – Parminder Nagra. A few chuckled, one even let out an “ew” (that was the girl who chose Beyonce) and I was embarrassed. Why? Because I only had one choice, one option, one representation and I didn’t want it to be white.

As I got older, the term ‘representation’ entered my vocabulary and immediately hit home, as all my childhood life I never felt represented. As an adult, I can understand and accept it, due to society, due to Hollywood, but no one understands that the years of childhood are so influential, that a lack of representation can destroy a kid’s confidence and be harmful to them beginning the journey of loving themselves. It took me a long time to accept who I was and it pains me inside, that there are kids out there, still insecure, feeling sad as they can’t seem to relate to a single character on the tv or on the film screen.

This memory came back to me, as I’ve been writing and beginning pre-production for my end of university graduation film. A film I made, so that we had no choice but to cast people of colour. Not because I hate white people, not because I’m not being inclusive, but because it’s about fucking time I saw someone familiar up on the screen.

Closed Doors is a project that I am super proud of and can’t wait to see it be made. I have such a strong team working with me to bring this image to life, but we would love if we could get your support too, I would super appreciate if you could click this link to find out more:


Thank you for reading, until next time. Let’s allow some unheard voices to tell their stories for once.

7 thoughts on “Why Representation Matters

  1. You honestly inspire me with EVERY bit of your writing. Every time I read your blog I know there’s some powerful shit coming my way and I cannot tell you enough how much love I have for you for finally wording the feelings I had when I was growing up too. I cannot wait to keep supporting you, I cannot wait for you to accomplish AMAZING things and I know you will. You’re one of my role models, inspirations, and from now on, you always will hold a special place in my life. You will do great things, Kayla. You’re a QUEEN.

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    1. Omg how are you gonna make me all emotional like that 😭😭 Thank you for the constant support and being the main reason why I stick around here, love you so much Lav ❤️❤️


    2. So this is the third piece I’ve read in a row since you asked me to guest, and I’m both excited and terrified. You are an absolutely incredible writer, and an even more amazing human being. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that you’re going to be that name, and that face of inspiration for children asked the same question.

      I can’t wait to write something; I hope it lives up to everything else here. Closed Doors was amazing, by the way. I remember watching it when I stayed with B and I was speechless for about 10 minutes. You should be really proud.

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  2. You are such an inspiration!! In 15 years, you’ll be the one a little Indian girl in class will choose to play her. Everything you write is so raw and powerful, it’s like you should be a writer or something… Thank you for always sharing your experiences. I know it is helping so many. I am so looking forward to your film. It’s going to be so wonderfully done, I already know!❤️

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